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Saturn and Your Great Work
Accomplishment is one of the ways we measure our lives, but in terms of what gives meaning to our lives, accomplishments are often merely...

Lelia
Mar 9, 20222 min read


Bernardine Evaristo, Elaine Dundy, Patti Smith & Resilience
There’s a great passage in Manifesto: On Never Giving Up where Bernardine Evaristo declares “In spite of what my father endured, he never...

Lelia
Feb 28, 20224 min read


An Imaginary Astrology Reading for Joyce Carol Oates: Part I
Imagine that Joyce Carol Oates*—who does not seem the type to sit with an astrologer, but let’s pretend—came to see me for a New Year’s...

Lelia
Feb 18, 20226 min read


Barbara Pym's Full and Quiet Life
A Very Private Eye, Barbara Pym’s autobiography in diaries and letters, is lovely in just the way Barbara Pym’s novels are lovely: quiet...

Lelia
Feb 9, 20222 min read


Good Behavior + Beauty Norms
I finished Good Behavior which I read without great relish. I mostly cringed and held my breath. Molly Keane is merciless in presenting...

Lelia
Feb 2, 20224 min read


"Nightbitch" & Wildness: A Descent to Soul
Nightbitch has created a tangled skein of ideas in my head and I’m not sure I’ll unravel it. You know how Austin Kleon does mind maps? I...

Lelia
Jan 24, 20227 min read


Eudora Welty, Peter Schjeldahl + Bill Plotkin
In The Optimist’s Daughter, the dark forces in the novel are Fay and her family, people “who never know the meaning of what has happened...

Lelia
Jan 16, 20223 min read


Jane Austen, Joan Didion & Self-respect
Don’t you think Persuasion the best Jane Austen novel ever? It’s by far my favorite. That’s kind of a joke because most characters in...

Lelia
Jan 11, 202210 min read


Light and Dark: Awakening in Life's Shadows
I’m trying to reread John O'Donohu's Anam Cara, and can’t stomach the pollyanna sunshine spiritual message. O’Donohue writes, “Light is...

Lelia
Dec 29, 20212 min read


Your Soul's Original Instructions
In Braiding Sweetgrass, Robin Wall Kimmerer writes about Indigenous Americans’ Original Instructions. “These are not ‘instructions’ like...

Lelia
Dec 26, 20211 min read


Mars as Imaginary Friend and Creative Muse
In an interview in The Guardian, Maxine Hong Kingston describes a male alter ego from her memoir I Love a Broad Margin to My Life....

Lelia
Dec 24, 20212 min read


Eudora Welty + Aries + Guilt
In One Writer’s Beginnings, Eudora Welty says her short story"Livvie" is “about youth and old age: the death of an old, proud, possessive...

Lelia
Dec 20, 20213 min read


Memoir and the Moon
I used to pay a lot of attention to the first lines in books. I had a notebook where I wrote them down and classified them according to...

Lelia
Dec 8, 20213 min read


Arbitray Stupid Goal and Attracting Perfect Customers
Artbitrary Stupid Goal is excellent. I bought it having seen that it's one of Austin Kleon's book club picks and I devoured it, both...

Lelia
Sep 14, 20213 min read


Self-Reclamation: Sy Montgomery, Danielle Henderson and Edith Wharton
My reading is taking on an unintentional theme. Several of the books I’ve recently picked up are by women or about women who’ve had to...

Lelia
Sep 9, 20215 min read


Wandering with Jean Shinoda Bolen, Charlie Warzel and Edith Wharton
As I read through Crones Don’t Whine by Jean Shinoda Bolen, I found myself dismissing it as fluff. It seemed to be just a collection of...

Lelia
Sep 7, 20213 min read


MFK Fisher, Aging and Poetry
Last House by MFK Fisher is good and sad. In many of the later essays, she’s angry at the aging process which for her was exacerbated by...

Lelia
Aug 26, 20214 min read


Books, Empty Nest and Gemini Rising
“They are busy and thinking of ways to be busier because such a space of nothing pressing to do would knock them down. No fields of...

Lelia
Aug 22, 20214 min read


Keri Smith, Play and Antidotes to the Wasteland
I’ve been thinking about Keri Smith’s Wreck This Journal as a way to pay attention and engage with my imaginarium but it occurred to me...

Lelia
Aug 17, 20213 min read


Diane Keaton, Ruth Reichl, Mothers, Self-Exploration and Story
I just finished Then Again by Diane Keaton and loved it. One of my favorite parts is Keaton’s assessment of some of the documentary films...

Lelia
Aug 16, 20214 min read
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